May 04, 2014

Fitness? Ask a Gay Porn Star!

by Lance Hart | My Writings | 6Comments

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  1. Thanks for the tips! I feel like this is something I could do. There a gym at my job. I know because i walk pass it as I’m going to the vending machines. Maybe I’ll start using it after work.

  2. “Vanity may be the strongest motivator for a shallow dude like me.”
    …You are FAR from a shallow dude! You have specialized knowledge you’re willing to share with no expectation of anything in return. That makes you kind and generous in my book.

    Everybody’s body is different, it’s true, and metabolism does play a part. If the diet you outline is consistent, I eat far more and debatably a little healthier than you, but I have almost exactly the same body as when I was 15 – I’m 47 now. I don’t do a whole lot of candy, almost zero soda, and never any energy drinks (though I am also a coffiend, perhaps more than you).

    During the periods I’ve really tried hard to bulk up, I’ve never been able to add more than two or three pounds a month to my natural weight of about 135 pounds. Inevitably, I catch a cold or have a toothache or something that takes me off my mass building mission for a few days to a week, and the pounds disappear immediately.

    In high school, a was derided quite a bit for my frame, and I had a horrible body image because of it. It took years to shake, and the real turning point came when my 20 year reunion came around – and everyone else looked like shit! I felt a glow of schadenfreude, seeing how the hot quarterback I had secretly lusted over blew up like a blimp.

    But I didn’t let feeling “better” than them linger too long – that’s a dangerous, negative, and self-serving way to an ego boost. In time, I’ve learned that this is how my higher power made me, and with a friend like that on my side, I should just be grateful.

    It matters much less to me now that I don’t have big pecs, arms, and thighs. To have tight abs and ass, gutters, and a big dick, and to have people pay to watch me on the net jerking off or banging pretty guys half my age, is more than enough to erase the judgment from decades ago from dumb teenagers who were only lashing out from their own hidden insecurities.

    Vive la différence!

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